Companion Care Needed - Now Hiring

About who needs care: He has had 6 strokes. He can hardly move and we are trying to find a solution for him for help. My mom is tiny compared to him and she cant lift him or do anything. We dont know what to do. He was at a nursing facility for 1 and a half months and then discharged and kicked on home because we couldnt afford to keep him there any longer. We have tried to see if the state can help us pay for nursing home care but my parents make too much money.. which they dont, its really frustrating and we dont know what to do About the care needs: Change catheter and lift a 228lbs man Services needed include: feeding, bathing / dressing, and mobility assistance.