Senior Caregiver - Now Hiring

About who needs care: She will not shower or change her Depends. She will use the Depends as her toilet and frequent UTIs. I need her to walk, exercise and activity for her mind. About the care needs: A caregiver that is positive and cannot be manipulated. Mom is lazy. She does not use any durable goods. She is a very young 95-year-old. My husband and I are her only caregivers. She often will defy my requests and that is destroying our relationship. I love her very much . We are very concerned about her health. I think I need someone else to take on some of her care. Services needed include: companionship, feeding, and bathing / dressing.