Senior Caregiver - Full-time / Part-time

About who needs care: Need someone to bathe her and dress her each morning. Sometimes she has bedwetting accidents at night and needs cleaned up in the morning. She refuses to wear depends. About the care needs: She has some dementia. Would like to have someone kind but forceful too. Overall, my mother is kind and peaceful but sometimes has to be forcefully told what to do. Services needed include: feeding, and bathing / dressing.