Babysitter

We are looking for a long-term babysitter for our 3-year-old in Manhasset. We need someone who can play with and do fun activities with our daughter and, ideally, be part of our family for a few years. I will be at home most of the time. I need a sitter who will mainly be here to play with my daughter (and clean up only after play) a few times a week. Once the relationship is established, more hours/days can be discussed and added. We would prefer someone who has their own car, who does not smoke, who has first aid training & has or is pursuing a college degree.